Just Be Nice only to Those Who Are Nice to You Korea Essays

-Book Introduction

You can't be nice to everyone. Now is the time to take care of yourself, let's be happy on our own.

Writer Kim Jae-shik, who has gained 2 million followers for 16 years as the operator of Korea's largest love community, 'Things to Know When Falling in Love'. This is his fifth book and the first to focus on interpersonal relationships, talking about the importance of taking care of yourself rather than trying to be a good person to others. You can't be a perfectly good person for everyone. Rather than trying to be a good person to others, I need to know my value first and be a good person only to the good people around me. Why don't you give this book as a gift to yourself, who has neglected to take care of yourself in your busy daily life, and to the precious people who stand by you?

-Index

1 page. You can't be nice to everyone

Loneliness comes more often when we are together You have to make a good stop loss so you can promise the next time I just need to be a good person to good people don't try to give too much traffic lights in a relationship Why wheat sugar is needed the person i want to be by my side Relationships deepen when we share our sorrows Efforts are together How to hold the key to a relationship the real remains It's not that it doesn't fit, it's that I don't know don't be mean when a relationship breaks down Should we be sick together? Keep moving so you don't fall There's no such thing as a predetermined answer It shines because of our efforts together that person is not stupid You have to know how to say no the person next to me right now Caring remains in the heart it's not that it's not make sure to pass The lie that this is only once my mood is more important Just listening gives me strength Frequency of contact is not a measure of a relationship be free from hurt The important thing is the consistency in it mood reader Being nice isn't enough Life is too much for my people alone time is limited silence is not golden It can't be helped that it doesn't fit don't pretend I like people who listen To endure is to turn away It is not a matter of A and B I could be a bad person too The important thing is that we are of the same mind Maybe the cause is me Words do not disappear and remain paradox of wounds Receive what you give memories are written differently

Chapter 2. to me i love

It takes effort to win the lottery to me i love roughly love The substance is more important than the wrapping paper I'm not lazy, I'm tired I need Haewooso in my heart too Tunnel is just part of the way You have to understand what's harder than breaking up Be an angular person sometimes Advantages sometimes become weaknesses The reason why the atmosphere suddenly gets cold Emotions are consumer goods Let the unimportant supporting cast pass coping with a breakup Don't be fooled by the shadows Flowers don't smile at me a tree with deep roots Read when you want to be happy From the words that you did a good job before you doubted it no one is normal I know I have to show off It's better to overestimate than underestimate me who doesn't love me How to make a beautiful appearance I don't have time because I don't have a heart There's no one who can make me happier than me not wrong but less just because it's me A person who is precious just as he is If I am, so be it How to prevent mental breakdown time is not medicine

Chapter 3. love is learning that person

the love i want Even if you become the one who loves me more I like any look I want you to tell me first the road that leads you thank you for loving me like this what we call love the season of you sometimes tell me something stupid small but true why love is hard I don't want anything hot Let's talk about the present rather than the distant future Reasons to speak beautifully Decide not to conclude Just try hard enough not to hate it Once broken, it is difficult to put together love only as much as expressed love is a discovery who can measure the amount nature does not change Do your best to have no regrets It's not hard because I love you boredom No other reason I didn't beg you then it must pass Things like love and not love When I'm standing alone in an empty field i don't like you that much magnet The real reason why we broke up Be nice to yourself and don't be sad It was an old breakup for me did i love you let go now Even if it's a tangled skein both are halved bad regards spring is coming It's just a difference of position Aren't you not sleeping either? Sometimes I draw you Memories go all the way I closed the door so you couldn't come why no news from him winter has come again

Chapter 4. now is the time to take care of me

say hello to me Looking back, it was me who ruined me It's just that I can't see it yet When you want to empty your mind of thoughts A few things my mother told me Please go back to when you were happy the story of the wind state of zero, not full Anxiety is also a habit If you look back, it will be a nostalgic time How to be 200% happy right now You'll find out when you take one step at a time Back then it was just for the best give yourself time Sometimes it's best to avoid be happy on my own People to be close to and people to be far from To be free even if you have less When everything doesn't go my way I can't go forward looking back If you feel unhappy right now do only what you can Everything is just a process for another start say you can do it be good when you are What's more important than getting is keeping the gift of oblivion to become an adult family law makes no sense Fall leaves and autumn wind It's more important to want to do it first how to filter the real thing once in a while let it be To have fun rather than to work hard He's not perfect either. now is the time to take care of me